Why do people believe that they know everything? I mean everything when it comes to others. They claim to mean well, actually just want to help you. Leave your life to them, and they will manage it beautifully. Or so they think.

The worst is when your family is doing this, after all you love them.

I have a wonderful sister, whom I love so much. We get on real well, enjoy each other’s company, she is probably my best friend .
However, every single time I go to her, she immediately switches to “ Let me tell you how to live your life “ mode and keeps on giving me advice on everything from how to deal with Mish to how to handle certain people, what should I say, do, act. Some are welcome, don’t mind sharing info about child raising, nutrition, but there are specific areas of my life where I believe I can make my own decisions.

I figured it out. Here is some advice to those who tend to do the same.
When your friend, sister, brother tells you something, even if it is complaining about life, partner, love life, or lack of it, mostly they just want you to listen to them, they just need a shoulder to cry on. Once they got it out of their system, they feel better, have a much clearer head, and sooner or later they will solve whatever was bothering them.

I know it it very tempting, after all you are not involved, you can clearly see that some relationship issues might be behind in not doing everything in their power to have their first baby, or you might know when your friend should get out of an unhealthy relationship.
That is because you are an outsider, free of emotions, you make judgements based on facts, rather then emotions.

Those emotions. The tender love you feel when you look at your babies, the grateful love you feel towards your parents, the passion you feel towards your love, the hatred passion can turn into, once you find out that he was passionate with quite a few ladies in the past, then comes acceptance, the gentle love, where you accept the person the way he is, with all his package, background and it is free of judgement.

Its hard, but without emotions there is not much point to life. We all experience pure joy and happiness, incredible sadness, loss. Just hope that the positive will outweigh the negative.
I only want to ask one thing! If you really love someone, than please accept her the way she is . Help her if she asks for help, listen to her if that is what she needs, just don’t judge!!!!

Working in on it myself. Try to give more chances to people to prove me wrong, and believe me I would be so happy if that were to be the case.

Meanwhile escaped Enchanted, just for a day or so. This constant fog is getting to me. Incredibly beautiful , it is like we are wrapped in some kind of fluffy cotton candy, every sound is muffled, oh so quiet.

So we came to the lake. That is another place to escape to.Once the summer is over, lake Velence goes into winter hibernation , falls asleep like Cinderella, only to be awakened by the first rays of summery sunshine.

We went for a walk, taking the scooter with us as well. Had an amazing fish soup “ Halaszle” in a restaurant that is finally taking the plunge and decided to stay open after the season is over. They have to pay the rent anyway, said the waitress. I admire their courage and wish them well.

The day is almost over the lights are on across the lake, time to edit some photos and read my new mags.

Love Saturday evenings! And Mishal loves them too. He just told me so.